News From P.I.T. (Pastor In Training)
We can easily deceive ourselves. I remember when I was in my mid-20s, my father told me that my hair line was receding. I told my dad that he didn't know what he was talking about, only to admit many years later that he may have been right. A few years after that comment, he also shared with me that it looked like I was gaining some weight, and not in a healthy way. Again, I denied my father's comment, only to notice that a few belt loops were needed along with a new pair of pants! Needless to say, my father's comments were correct in both cases, but I wanted to live by my own deceptions.
I was able to deceive myself of reality for a little while, only to have to eventually acknowledge the truth. I was able to deceive myself in the physical world, but we need to be aware that this deception can also happen in our spiritual lives. This Lenten season can be an opportunity for fasting, praying, and almsgiving as a way to see the invitation of the Lord to acknowledge our own brokenness and turn back to Him who longs to be with us!
In this Third Sunday of Lent, Year A readings for the Scrutinies, we read the story of the woman at the well. In a way, she deceived herself over time into making decisions that pulled her away from others and from the Lord. We know this, because she comes to the well at noon, which would have meant that she was avoiding others. And yet, Jesus is there, and her life is revealed in the conversation she has with Him. Even in the midst of her own deceptions, the Lord, who is named the Bridegroom in the previous chapters, pursued her and invited her into a life with Him out of love.
This may seem scandalous, as even the disciples were surprised to see the Lord talking to her when they returned from getting food. Jesus opened the eyes of not only the Samaritan woman at the well, but also those of his disciples to see their mission to bring others back in the fold into relationship with Him. The Lord, the ultimate Bridegroom, pursues his Bride the Church and longs for all to be with Him.
May this season of Lent give us an opportunity to turn away from our own self-deceptions, seek the Lord's mercy, and be more united to Him who loves us.
Father Michael